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It’s a beautiful day in the city. You’re walking on the sidewalk and approach an intersection with a handful of people waiting for the pedestrian light to turn green. As you look right and left, there’s a nary a vehicle to be found. No harm, no foul so you cross the street when the signal is still red. Once you’ve made it across, you find you’ve become the target of serious side-eye and scorn. Why? Because you broke a cardinal rule. The saying “rules are meant to be broken” doesn’t stick in Germany. Obeying the rules — even the unwritten ones — is part of embracing German culture.
Where does it come from?
Germany tends to follow the mantra of “Alles in Ordnung,” or everything in order. Looking back at German history, it’s easy to see why it’s been this phrase has been adopted. During the Thirty Years War in the 17th century, chaos and anarchy became the norm. Towns and villages were left in ruin, which created massive unrest and social dissonance. Cities were burned to their foundations. As a result, leaders began implementing policies and laws to help prevent the destruction of nations. Obeying the rules provided a sense of order and stability which was desperately needed at that time.
Embracing the rules
Just as we Americans are introduced to rules as children, it’s the same in Germany. Rules are introduced and engrained at very young ages — arguably from birth. Our host nation focuses its policies and laws with the interests of what’s best for the community. This mindset makes life a little easier for everyone and strikes a more harmonious balance for the country as a whole. During the recent COVID-19 pandemic, Germany was able to ease in and out of restrictions almost seamlessly due to the majority of the population following the guidance set out by leadership.
Some rules to follow
When living in Germany, there are several rules to follow almost immediately. Jaywalking is a surefire way to receive a stern lecture from your neighbors. Even if Sunday is one of your coveted days off, Sundays are rest days. No car washing or loud outside noises allowed. Did the recycling truck seem to skip your house? You may not have followed the proper guidelines for sorting your goods. Driving leisurely in the left lane on the autobahn is a big no-no. Not only will you get flashed, honked and tailgated if you don’t move over, but you can also get fined. Likewise if you choose to pass on the right. Also, make sure you’ve filled up your gas tank. Running out of fuel on the autobahn is illegal and can cost you a pretty penny or a point on your license.
Embracing the German tradition of following rules is actually pretty simple. Not only is it the right thing to do, but it’s an important showing of respect as we are invited guests in this host country.
